Summer is Here at Bedford Landings B & B

Posted on May 20, 2019 by Bedfordlandings
purple flower

Purple Glory

Summer is here and it’s not even June yet. It is expected to be in the 80’s and 90’s this week! So now is a great time to get out on the water and get your tan on!  Jack and I took a quick outing on the water this past weekend just to gas up the boat. We keep it on my sister’s dock but Bedford Landings does have access to a community dock if you decide you want to walk down to the water or launch a boat.


A good first day on the water!


The summer has many fun activities in store.

Memorial Day Weekend – Several choices of live music around the lake at Mango’s, Wallers, Heath’s and other locations. The state park is hosting many family friendly activities.

Lakeside Singers and Lake Players– Performance in a show called “That’s Entertainment” June 7 (7 pm) and June 8 (3 pm) at Trinity Ecumenical Parish. Tickets are $12 and $15 for a fun evening of music and drama! Tickets available at

Lyrics on the Lake Songwriter Festival is Father’s Day Weekend (June 14-15). That means multiple venues host (Nashville) budding artists to sing for FREE! Of course the venues hope you will purchase drinks and food but it is quite entertaining throughout the day and night all to benefit Children’s Miracle Network! Venues include Mango’s, Wallers, Magnum Point Marina, and others participate.

Smith Mountain Arts Council Coffeehouse – July 21- Enjoy wine, beer, light snacks and a fun music and storytelling show. Celebration Room in Downtown Moneta. Tickets available at

Picnic at Hickory Hill

Sunset Saturday– Hickory Hill vineyard. Every Saturday (in good weather) for music, picnic (bring your own) and relaxing with a glass of wine. See:


Pirates from Bedford Landings B & B

Pirate’s Weekend– July 19-21. Dress like a pirate. Everyone does it. Watch fun water battles, see the boat parade, and go to the Pirate’s ball. Even Jack and I dress up!

And during the day?

Farmer’s Market at Mama Ann’s, Shops including Cottage Gate and Reclaimed, visiting alpaca farms, geocaching in the state park, feeding the carp at Bridgewater, renting a boat, and more.

Make your reservations now for family overflow, a fun get away, or your vacation!  We welcome you!



Sweetness Begets Sweetness

Posted on April 1, 2019 by Bedfordlandings

Have you ever just kept moving forward during a stressful time instead of letting the reality of a situation engulf you? Psychologists say that “denial” is a really comfortable place to be – and it’s true.  After my mom died 5 years ago, we were busy with our B & B and exploring our new community of Smith Mountain Lake.  I became quite involved in an array of lake activities.  Since Mom had lived a distance from us anyway, it was easier thinking of her as away instead of dead!  But on the occasions that I wanted to call her to share some life event, I would remember!  Of course this was just a way of dealing with reality short term.

Mom reading to us

Mom reading to me (the baby) and Sherry, my sister.

While she was ill, I kept an intermittent journal and saved many of my emails between my siblings and me as we communicated about her caregiving in her final years.  Mom had Alzheimer’s Disease.

It took me until this year to review the notes and emails about her care to write her story, but I did it. And in writing her story, I was able to not only deal with her disease and ultimate death, but work my way out of denial. In the past, I have published children’s books (available on Amazon), but this one was different.  It was emotionally trying to go through the notes and relive each event. I pushed to get it done by her birthday (March 22) and indeed I did.  I have shared it now with my sister and brother as gifts and also shared it with Mom’s best friend.  I gave each of them 2 copies and asked them to pass the book along to someone else who could benefit from reading about the ups and downs of caring for a loved one with memory issues.  A few people locally have purchased my book and shared with me that they too, could relate to Mom’s story because of their current or past situations.

If you are in the midst of caregiving or know someone who is, please consider reading Mom’s story and telling me how you can relate.  Then give the book to someone else.  It is available in hard copy and by e-book. We all need support when facing the realities of losing a loved one.  This was just my way of (finally) dealing with it.

The book is entitled, Sweetness Begets Sweetness. Why that title?  Mom used to say it to us when we were kids to get us to be “nice” to our siblings. It was one of many platitudes to get us to behave! I am sure you have your own family sayings that you remember!

Mom and Karen on wedding day

This was taken in 2006, the day that Jack and I got married. Mom died in 2014.

Family is one of the most important things in life (to me) and preserving the stories and memories may be more important to me in my later years than I know.  There is much to be known yet about how Alzheimer’s disease is acquired and how it may be passed through genetics.  So in the meantime, we learn what we can and share what we learn!

Postscript: After reading this book, my brother wrote this memory of Mom.

9 April 2019

My sister Karen wrote a book called “Sweetness Begets Sweetness” about the fading of my Mom via Alzheimer’s.  As Mom’s third born and only son I am compelled to add a couple of comments.  Karen did a magnificent job of capturing most of our feelings and memories.  Karen has boundless energy of which I had just a bit.  Great job Sis!

Lonely screamed out at me when I first read Karen’s rendition of Mom’s life.  I had to read it twice to absorb the monumental woman that Karen describes.  Mom, like all of us experience moments of loneliness, it is part the human condition.  Her last few years, however, must have been pure lonely torture…for a while, until she no longer understood what loneliness meant.  Seems we (Sherry, Karen and Me) became lonelier as we watched Mom’s mind slowly wither away.  That rock of a Mom was going away.

In her day, she was one hell of a resource; the Google of the day.  One quick call and she had an answer or at least some advice.  When I was really young and did something really stupid she would send me after a switch off the old willow tree out front.  Normally they were too small and I’d have to go back and get a bigger one.  She “blistered” the backs of my legs bright red.  This was cruel and unusual punishment, at the time, but she still had her mind.  Later we graduated to rulers until they kept breaking, then fly swatters but they kept bending, finally “wait until your father gets home.”  But she still had her mind. Later I realized this was some good old southern discipline.

Mom also taught me how to be a gentleman: open the door for the ladies or the infirm, walk on the outside on the sidewalk less a car tire splash the lady, yes Sir, and yes Ma’am.  She drilled the multiplication tables into my thick head for years (I was the slowest learner of the kids, still am).  Yet now, how I long for those days of interaction and learning.

Mom loved us all so much.  I know we (mostly me) filled her mind with consternation and “good grief-ed-ness.”  She loved more than anyone else could have!

So, as she was slowly taken from us, we hurt exponentially.  The vacuum and loneliness was deafening.  She was confused when we had to remove her from her home and into a professional care facility; even there with lots of people she was lonely and then lonely and lonelier.  The harder we tried to fill her mind with something she could remember, the less she remembered.  Before too long, she was but a shell.  That rock of a Mom was almost gone.

Seconds before her last breath she whispered in my ear, “I love you son.”

M. G. Brown

Why We Decided to Open a Bed & Breakfast

Posted on March 9, 2019 by Bedfordlandings

Many have asked us why we decided to build and operate a Bed & Breakfast. We generally tell the story to our breakfast guests who ask. But this week, it has become even clearer to me why we chose this life.

We explain to people that we wanted to move to an airport property in Virginia. Jack’s dream was to walk out his front door and be near his airplanes. He can hop in a plane and just take a leisurely flight over beautiful Smith Mountain Lake. He now spends 6-8 hours a day in the hangar completing a decade long project of building a 4-seat traveling airplane called an RV-10. We are hoping to travel more in the coming years!

RV-10 airplane

RV-10 under construction

I have become involved in the local community with singing, photography, and gardening.

Karen Singing







We have met many interesting people who have walked through the doors of Bedford Landings. We enjoy preparing a personalized home cooked, made from scratch breakfast with love and care. We have found this a welcoming community offering the type of the activities that are a fit for us. We are indeed happy that we made the decision to live here. People ask if running a B&B is a lot of work? Indeed it is but we like the schedule. We are up at 6:30, serve breakfast at 8:00 and the kitchen is clean by 9:00. We check-in people in the afternoon and are generally free to make evening plans.Breakfast room

What are the downsides?

• When people don’t come down for a fresh, hot breakfast, we are disappointed. When they say, ”I’m not much of a breakfast eater.” We silently wonder why they chose to stay in a full service bed and breakfast.

• When people decide to stop to go antiquing or for a late dinner before checking in without calling. Then we have to cancel our evening plans.
Other than these few pet peeves, we truly love sharing our home and helping people understand more about Smith Mountain Lake. Many who visit, come to spend time on the water or to attend a wedding or a family reunion, while others may be searching for a retirement home.

But there is more to why we retired nearly 10 years ago to move away from our three children and six grand children to build a B &B at an airport. It has to do with “living.” This week on March 7th, I turned 65 years old. On March 8th, Jack turned 66 years old. My dad died one month short of his 65th birthday (cancer). Jack’s Dad died when he was 68 (cancer). His dad was a medical doctor and worked until shortly after his diagnosis of pancreatic cancer. My dad took an early retirement as a university administrator at age 60. He moved to Florida with my stepmother and was having a blast exploring, meeting new friends, golfing and generally socializing; until he couldn’t.

Karen with her Dad

Karen with your children and her dad.

Unlike our fathers, we didn’t want to work until we died. As a tenured professor, I had so enjoyed my active career but wanted a new challenge and to do something totally different. As a mechanical design engineer, then an engineering manager, Jack was tired of boring budget meetings, corporate transitions, and laying off staff. He wanted to quit that life but not sit still!

Jack with his Mama

Jack and his beautiful Mama

My mom died 5 years ago, as we were finishing up building the B&B. Her birthday is this month. So I am looking into the future through the lens of my parents. With nostalgia, I am entering into “old age” and wondering how I will gracefully accept my wrinkles and gray hair. Jack’s mom is the epitome of grace as she nears her 95th birthday still living in the house in which Jack grew up.

A friend said to me recently, “I’m not afraid of dying, I am afraid of not living.” Thank-you Joe, you expressed what I was feeling. We moved here to LIVE and we will continue to LIVE and hopefully thrive–until we can’t!

Chick Magnet and Fork in the Road dressed for Halloween 2018

Murder Mystery Event-Bedford Landings B & B

Posted on February 19, 2019 by Bedfordlandings

Do you consider yourself playful?  Do you like to laugh? Do you think it is fun to play pretend games?  Do you like to meet and mingle?  If the answer to these questions is YES (or even no!), then you will enjoy an evening of mystery and problem solving!  A murder mystery storyline has been written especially for the evening of March 2, 2019.  The event will take place at Bedford Landings Bed & Breakfast, located near the airport at Smith Mountain Lake.  Only 35 tickets are available and 25 have been already reserved. To get your reservation, go online to purchase your ticket. 

You will be e-mailed a character bio just a few days before the event.  It is best to keep your bio private and use the details provided to solve the mystery. You will build your own character based on what you have been given in your bio.  You don’t have to divulge a thing about yourself as a REAL person.  That’s part of the fun!

Food and beverages will be provided by Karen & Jack at Bedford Landings.  You are welcome to BYOB but non-alcoholic beverages and ice will also be provided. Start time is 5:30 pm.

Join the fun!  This event only happens once a year!Murder Mystery

For the Birds!

Posted on January 21, 2019 by Bedfordlandings

I am growing to love photography and our bird feeder right out the living room window gives me some pretty remarkable sights for taking photos, especially on these a cold days!  All I have to do is feed the birds and they entertain me by visiting.  It seems that I always seem to get the same birds!  I learned today (in Moneta Garden Club) that the birds I feed are seed-eaters and the ones I am missing are worm eaters or bug eaters, probably foraging in the trees.

I realize that I have spent a great deal of my life learning about things other than wildlife, but I just didn’t realize that there are over 10,000 species of birds and that we only have about 973 of them in the  United States.

I loved observing the ravens when we visited Yellowstone a few years ago.

and I even liked the cute budgies at the natural habitats at Natural Bridge zoo,

but also I have gotten to know the birds right out my window!

One of about 5 families hatching in my porch ferns last Spring.

Birds in the Fall crowding the feeder

It’s funny when the crows stand back and watch. The small birds will chase them off in a heartbeat even thought they are larger!

Cardinals give a nice pop of red!

More warbler crowding

The hanging tufted!

The seeds in my summer red hot pokers must be tasty!


Another common warbler

Woodpecker with a seed in its mouth.

I realize that these wild birds are quite different from my domestic chickens, but they are birds still!

Blue eggs from our girls

The Girls

(An aside) I am proud to report that our chickens are laying this winter.  Upon the advice of friends with chickens and chicken books, I extended their day light by about 4 hours with a lamp on a timer in their hen house!

But wrapping up my little flighty blog on birds, here are your fun facts about birds…

Go watch the birds!





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